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Questions to Ask Caregiver Before You Adopt

Child's Name:
Nicknames:

Child's Birth History:

  • Term? Gravida/Para
  • Type of Delivery
  • Birth Complications
  • Apgars
  • Documented Maternal Alcohol or Drug use
  • Communicable Disease History of Bio Mom/Dad
  • How arrived at Orphanage? With Whom? Baby Pictures (Pay)?
  • How old when arrived at orphanage? Why Ward of State?
  • Does she remember bio family? Who named her?
  • What has child been told about adoption process & birth parents?

Medical Histories of Parents:

  • Known Mental Illness
  • Siblings & Health Status
  • Known Congenital Diseases
  • Where is family from?

Vaccinations to date:

  • Polio
  • Diptheria/Tetnus
  • Chicken Pox
  • Small Pox
  • Measles
  • Tuberculosis
  • BCG
  • Others

Childhood Diseases to Date:

  • Chicken Pox
  • Whooping Cough
  • Measles
  • RSV
  • Fifths Disease
  • Others:

Previous Medical History & Diagnosis, Date, Basis of Diagnosis (tests, findings), current status of problem:

  • Allergies
  • Heart Conditions
  • Lung Conditions
  • Stomach/Bowel
  • Urinary/Bedwetting
  • Accidents/Injuries
  • Hospitalizations/Surgery
  • History of Blood Transfusions/Repeated Parenteral Injections
  • Current Illnesses
  • Current Medications

Developmental Delays Noted/ Milestones Achieved when:

  • Speech- Native language:

    • Began to Speak age
    • Approx Word Vocab
    • Problem Areas

  • Growth/ Mobility:

    • Sat Up At
    • Crawled
    • Walked
    • Problems noted

  • Social:

    • Consistent with Peers in development?
    • Does she get along well with other children?
    • Prefer younger/older/peer/same gender?
    • How many children in group?
    • Exposed to pets- cats/dogs

  • Emotional:

    • Concerns with autism, tourrets, ADHD, Mental Retardation
    • Unexplained Outbursts for no apparent reason?
    • Difficulty keeping direct eye contact or hypervigilant
    • Overly Affectionate to Strangers?
    • Unusual attachment to something? Is child rigid?
    • Signs of Violence/destructiveness
    • Strange behaviors associated with eating, sleeping, cleaning, learning or playtime?
    • Phobias, panic attacks, nightmares or terrors?
    • Known cases of sexual abuse?
    • Grown Attached to any caretakers?
    • How does she express affection?
    • How does she deal with frustration, anger, surprise, change, learning new things?

Schooling:

  • If any, does she like it?
  • Classes (Music, Art, Dance)
  • Best areas
  • Problem areas
  • What has she learned/does she know about the U.S.?

Daily Activities:

  • What time does she usually get up?
  • When bathed- am/pm?
  • Shower/Bath/Sponge?
  • Bath/Shower How Often?
  • Sensitivities to soaps/detergents?
  • Describe Hair Washing?
  • Brushes own teeth?
  • Dresses Self?
  • Bathroom Times?
  • What are daily responsibilities?
  • What is/are play times?
  • Play Time activities (Toys, outside, favorites)
  • When is bedtime?
  • Bedtime Routine?

Food Questions:

  • Allergies:
  • Eating Times?
  • Typical Meals/Menus
  • Breakfast:
  • Lunch:
  • Dinner:
  • Snacks:
  • How much fluids used to drinking?
  • Special Treats:
  • What were they?
  • When or why were they given?
  • Food Likes
  • Food Dislikes
Life in Children's Home:

  • What comforts her when upset?
  • What music/songs does she like?
  • Have a security item?
  • Favorite Toys
  • Interests?
  • Best Friends?
  • How is she disciplined? Response?
  • Response when sick?
  • How does she show fatigue?
  • What does she do when she knows she's done something wrong?

  • Special Holidays/Celebrations:

    • Birthdays
    • Easter
    • Christmas
    • Other

-- Kerry